It now appears that Charlie Gard and his parents have lost their war. It seems that Charlie will die over the next few days and that his parents have decided that all hope of any improvement is lost. All they now seek is to ensure that their son dies with dignity and compassion.
They gave up their commendable battle when they realised it was now, after all the delays, too late to meaningfully help their son. They faced enormous challenges and met them with dignity and were, without any dubiety, an example to many of the power of parental love. The showed a steadfastness that was remarkable and kept on despite many difficulties.
In the last week there was a campaign mounted against them which is likely to have originated from GOSH’s legal team. Articles appeared in the British press praising at the medical and nursing staff suggesting that they were doing their best for the child and his parents could not wish for better advocates for their baby.
It was then suggested that the staff had been intimidated by online harassment and threats. This is a common strategy by those under pressure as it has the two fold action of both stifling criticism and also suggesting that those on the other side of the debate are associated with violent thuggery. This was especially unpleasant as throughout this dreadful time Charlie’s parents remained dignified and reserved. They never called the motives of the staff caring for their child into question and said no bad things about them.
Charlie Gard will not see his first birthday. But in his short life he will hopefully have opened many peoples’ eyes to the dangers of giving away our freedoms to authorities who tell us that they will look after us. He and his parents will have achieved much more than most of us, they are modern heroes. Heroes don’t need to win their battles they just have to be heroic. Heroes are heroic not because they win but because they fought.